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A Smith’s Falls “Frustrated Young Love’s Dream” Purdy vs Lenahan



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On the 26th of November 1897 a vigilant detective in Smith’s Falls frustrated a ‘Love’s Young Dream’ and a would be groom landed himself in prison. His lady love was said to be pining at home overseen by what was called a stern parent on the 6th line of Goulburn.

The elopers, Helen Purdy age 17, and married man, with a family no less, James Lenahan, age 37, tried to catch the C.P.R. train from Smiths Falls to Ottawa to get married. How on earth they were going to do that one has to ask themselves–but there were no computers in those days, and a birth certificate, if that, I am sure was suffice.

It seems one of Miss Purdy’s parents seemed to have sense wrong was about to become about and caught them in due time with the help of Smiths Falls baggage man J. Stewart. May I mention that Stewart was also a policeman for Smiths Falls at the time.  So Detective, and baggage man, Stewart soon had captured both of the wood-be elopers. I imagine if we were sitting in a movie theatre right now we would either hear some cheers or boos at this moment in time.

Tears and protests from the couple were in vain while the father went to get the Chief of Police of Smiths Falls  involved. I assume the detective and baggage man did not have enough authority and the Chief took young Lenahan take to jail. Young Miss Purdy was last seen heading off into the sunset with her father in the speeding family carriage and bigamist Lenahan was soon to be tried  by County Magistrate Smith. There was no further word what happened to either, but I assume Lenahan felt the wrath from the judge and his current wife.

The popular image of bigamists involve family men juggling two wives, a few children, and two homes, each family not knowing of the existence of the other. If we do not imagine this kind of “double life”, at the very least, the first impulse is to picture a male villain, a scoundrel. This hardly corresponds to the reality. A systematic study of bigamy cases brought to legal authorities in a number of Canadian local jurisdictions in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries reveals that very few of the prosecuted bigamists led a “double life”. Now that must have really been a full time job!!!

One thing is certain: Mrs. Lenahan died in 1925 still married to her adulterous James. Even though James was still alive she was living with her daughter in Montague and had been an invalid for most of her years.  I imagine any of the cheers in a theatre right now watching this film would most certainly turn into boos. For shame!




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James Watson– Bigamy and Shoes

Bigamy–The Story of Ken and Anne and Debby and Cathy and…

She Came Back! A Ghost Divorce Story

One Night in Almonte or Was it Carleton Place?

Bigamists? How About the Much Married Woman? One for the Murdoch Mystery Files

I’m so Sick of that Same Old Love — Bigamous Relations in Lanark County



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Lanark Genealogical Society

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North Lanark Regional Museum

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Lanark Museum

Smiths Falls & District Historical Society

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Just Like Internet Dating?— Circa 1913



I don’t often read stories like this but, when I was researching through the newspaper archives I had to read this story twice it was so fascinating.

Ottawa Journal– October 21 1913 headline read:

Girl Underage Wed- Trouble Now!

Charity Officer  John Keane and his Charity offices of Ottawa were asked to investigate a case of a fair young U.S. visitor who had married her groom while still underage. It began innocently enough when a young girl came to Canada on a visit and met a young Lanark County man and Cupid engineered the rest.

They married and sent a clipping of their marriage to her parents in the United States. Maybe that wasn’t such a  wise decision as the young girl’s parents immediately contacted Canadian authorities that she was not yet eighteen–meaning in capital letters she was still underage.

Children’s Aid was then contacted who in turn contacted a similar American agency that immediately asked them if someone underage could get married in Canada. Well it seems that the young girl had made some misstatements and in those days official papers were not the first thing on everyone’s mind- so she got away with it.

Both agencies American and Canadian said that nothing could be done now as the marriage had taken place without incident. Had they known her parents had not given consent they could have stopped it– but there was nothing they could do about it now. The couple was now living in Ottawa and hopefully happily ever after.

My how times have changed.

Related Reading

Because You Loved Me — A Vintage Lanark Romance

Would You Duel Anything For Love?

The McArthur Love Story